based on the LGG Study, Secure in Christ/w4d5
Read: Ephesians 4:25-32; SOAP: verse 32
Therefore, having laid aside falsehood, each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, because we are members of one another. 26 Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on the cause of your anger. 27 Do not give the devil an opportunity. 28 The one who steals must steal no longer; instead he must labor, doing good with his own hands, so that he will have something to share with the one who has need. 29 You must let no unwholesome word come out of your mouth, but only what is beneficial for the building up of the one in need, that it would give grace to those who hear. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 You must put away all bitterness, anger, wrath, quarreling, and slanderous talk—indeed all malice. 32 Instead, be kind to one another, compassionate, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ also forgave you.
Ephesians 4:25-32
Being secure in Christ gives us the freedom and the courage to live like Christ.
From the Inside Out 🦋
Paul has just told the believers of Ephesus to put off their old, sinful nature and put on their new nature, created in God’s image to reflect the righteousness and holiness of Jesus Christ (Eph 4:22-24). Today’s passage is a practical application of putting off and putting on. Paul lists out seven things that should not characterize our lives: lying, anger, Satan’s influence, stealing, unwholesome words, and grieving the Holy Spirit with a hardness toward sin. Thankfully, Paul doesn’t stop here but continues with a practical list of sins that grieve the Holy Spirit: bitterness, anger, wrath, quarreling, and slanderous talk—indeed all malice. He then continues with a list of godly/Christ-like characteristics we should put on, namely: kindness, compassion, and forgiveness (noting that we aren’t just to forgive but to forgive just as God in Christ has forgiven us).
While kindness and compassion may not always come easily, I believe forgiveness can be the most difficult of the three. I have talked to many women who say the same, and more often than I can count, I have had them tell me, “I just can’t or won’t forgive that person.”
God promises that, when we come to Him confessing our sin and asking for forgiveness, He freely grants it for the sake of Christ (1 John 1:9). Likewise, the forgiveness we extend to others should know no limits (Luke 17:3–4). The forgiveness we extend to others is an act of the will. We do not deserve God’s forgiveness; likewise, our forgiveness is not granted because a person deserves to be forgiven. No one deserves to be forgiven. Forgiveness is a deliberate act of love, mercy, and grace. Forgiveness is a decision not to hold something against another person, despite what he or she has done to us.
Adapted from Gotquestions.org/What is Forgiveness?/emphasis mine
I love that today’s reading also included the words of Jesus in John 13:34-35.
“I give you a new commandment—to love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. 35 Everyone will know by this that you are my disciples—if you have love for one another.”
John 13:34-35
This is a passage I believe all who follow Christ should have hidden in their heart/minds. After all, there is no greater commandment than loving God and loving others (Mark 12:29-31). Loving others, like forgiveness, isn’t always easy; loving others just as Jesus loved us can be even more difficult, for His love knew no limits, not even death on the cross. Friends, we may not lose our lives on a cross like Jesus, but we are called to put off (lose) the old life and put on the new. When we do this, when our life is characterized by kindness, compassion, and forgiveness (all of which require love), we will be the light that points others to Jesus.
Paul writes that our words, thoughts, and actions should point others to Christ and not away from Him. The way we do this is by keeping love at the forefront of all that we do and allowing forgiveness to be our first response to others (John 13:35).
From the LGG Journal, Secure in Christ/p135
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